Why does a 70-year-old still hear a teenager’s voice in their head? Why do people lose 100 pounds and still feel like “the fat one”? Dante Harker has spent 25+ years fixing that exact gap — and in this episode, he explains how.Dante is a clinical hypnotherapist, clinical supervisor, and creator of The Identity Update™, a signature method for the moment your life has changed but part of you hasn’t caught up. He specializes in men’s psychosexual health, parts therapy, and identity work — and he’s genuinely one of the most fascinating guests we’ve had.
We cover:
• Why your internal dialogue doesn’t match your external reality
• The Identity Update™ 3-session process
• Parts therapy and the client whose “part” wandered off mid-session
• Men’s psychosexual health: the four core issues (and why nobody refers)
• UK vs US cultural differences in therapy
• The raccoon client
• The 100-to-0 focus technique that fights phone-induced attention collapse
• Why you are not your thoughts
• How to be kinder to the voice in your head
Sincerely,
David Barron aka Dantalion Jones




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